Welcome to our 3rd guest blog on #ldinsight and what it means to participants. Today’s personal and beautifully written piece comes from Meg Lyons, who discovered tweet chats last year, and really values the connection and generosity. Meg also highlights how the chat can feel when you are taking part ‘in the moment’ and how ‘fast and furious’ and more considered responses all play an equally valid role.
Meg is an independent coach and trainer who loves helping individuals to work with more meaning, balance and joy.
Hope you’ll enjoy the read
2016 was a year of great discoveries for me. After 15 years at the same organisation, I left my role in a client-facing learning team to give myself some time to pause, reflect on what’s important, and re-engineer my work to do the things that I love. I followed an inner knowing that coaching was part of my career journey and gained accreditation through the International Coach Federation. When I consider the journey I went on, there were highs and lows, great moments and challenging ones, and learning all the time. In the context of the world, 2016 will be remembered as a remarkable year in history. But for me it will have to go down as the year I discovered the tweet chat. In particular, #ldinsight on a Friday morning from 8-9am helped me understand the amazing wonder, fun, and learning of the collaborative and connective power of Twitter.
What makes #ldinsight so meaningful? I summed up my appreciation for it by relating it to several themes:
Commonality and diversity
One of the best aspects about the chat is to know that, from the outset, there is some common interest for people to be there. Anyone there for the chat has, at the least, some curiosity for the topic, and usually they have much more: real-world experience, deep subject matter expertise, and thought leadership in the field. But at a minimum, there’s curiosity. I’ve always taken great energy from a learning experience where others want to be there, leveraging the power of a tribe to enhance the richness of the topic.
While there is a shared interest, there is also incredible diversity that comes up in the discussion of the topic. I appreciate recognising the voices that are like mine for validation that I’m not alone in my way of thinking and viewing the world. On the flip side, I really appreciate the ones who bring a totally different angle and perspective, the folks who make me stop and think, “Ah, I hadn’t considered that!” In this sense, #ldinsight has helped me understand where I have biases and how I can be more mindful of those. The range of opinions, thoughts, and responses that emerge from one single question really demonstrate that although we are alike, we are different. I love the diversity of thought that helps me stretch my beliefs and understanding of the opportunities we face. I also get to know who might be helpful in terms of future partnerships, both those who share my outlook, skills and approaches, and those people I’ll think of when I encounter requests to do something that goes beyond my strengths and specialisms.
The here and now and that the “what could be”
I’ll admit that there are some Friday mornings where I don’t “keep up” very well. Usually those are the days when I’m behind with my morning routine and not quite in the headspace to be multi-tasking with breakfast, getting kids out the door for school, and being on Twitter. Or the responses might be flying fast and furious and depending on the question, I might be trying to work out my own response. Noticing my engagement has been a great exercise – to work out that balance between not leaping to have an answer, versus being in the moment and providing a quick, unfiltered reply of the first thing that comes to mind. I’ve noticed where am I quick to have a say, and what could I learn from sitting back and taking time to consider. Of course, it’s only an hour long, and if we all sat back and noticed it might be a pretty quiet chat. Tumbleweed rolling across screens is probably not the best look for a tweet chat! There is great beauty in blurting and seeing where that takes the conversation.
What I also love about the time aspect is that it doesn’t really stop at 9:00am when the moderated chat finishes and we all go out to live our Fridays. I carry the energy out into my day, and have been known to have an “a-ha” moment days later when I make a connection between something that came up on the chat and something I see in my own life and work. That happens in my coaching as well and we want that from the learning experiences we facilitate – all of the insights don’t come specifically in the session, but later, when our clients are out living their lives and applying their new ways of looking at situations, or new patterns of behaviour. The chance for reflection and ideas to marinate is a part of sense-making that I appreciate.
Making the link between the personalities that emerge in the chat, and who people are when you meet them in person, is something else I enjoy. L&DCoWork, the monthly co-working event, is a great place to continue online conversations together in person. And from another regular chat I attend, I’m co-delivering a workshop later this year in Denmark on creating transformation through play (#WePlayChat if you’re interested, for all things about being more playful!). So, who knows where the 60 minutes of hashtag fun can take you?
Connection and generosity
Connection is often a huge value for people involved in the learning & development profession. Many of us do the work we do to help others be more successful, in their roles, their organisations, and their lives. Depending on whether we do this within organisations, as part of small or large teams, or as independent consultants with the merry team of “me, myself, and I”, connection remains vital. Moving into the space of the independent coach was difficult for me, as my value of teamwork was really challenged. #ldinsight and other chats give me periods of connection that help plug that gap and combat that feeling of isolation.
With time being our most precious commodity, it’s inspiring to see how #ldinsight allows us come together to share ideas, continue to build an incredible community of L&D/OD practitioners, and leverage technology for efficiency and scale. I appreciate the generosity of the organisers, the weekly moderators, the people who attend to share and contribute. It’s what makes it fun and worthwhile.
After missing a few chats, I realised I wanted to find a way to make sure I attended at 8:00am. Fortunately my phone alarm has helped with that, so I actually get an early-morning celebration to boot when I make it on time. The number of ways that #ldinsight links to my values make it an extremely valuable use of time – and I hope to meet you there soon for a Friday cuppa and chat!
Meg Lyons
@danceswithlyons
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